Ending an in-home care arrangement is its own process with its own paper, and families who plan only the start often lose track of money, keys, and records at the end.

Families plan the start of home care carefully and then end it in a hurry. The end is where keys go missing, a final bill arrives with a surprise line, and the paper that proves what was paid gets thrown away. Treat the ending as a process with six steps, in this order.

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Step 1: Read the ending terms before you need them

Open the signed agreement and find the notice period, how final hours are calculated, what happens to any prepaid block of hours, and who signs the closing record. If the agreement is silent on any of these, ask the agency in writing before you give notice. Do not rely on what a scheduler said on the phone.

Step 2: Give notice in writing

Send the notice to the contact named in the agreement, keep a copy, and state the last date of service. A phone call alone leaves no record, and the agency's file will show whatever it shows.

Step 3: Confirm the final shift

Agree on the last date and time of service. Ask the agency to confirm in writing which hours will appear on the final timesheet, so that hours after the last shift are not billed by accident.

Step 4: Collect the house

Make a list of keys, door codes, key fobs, any written care notes, and any supplies the agency left in the home. Check the list with the aide or the agency at the last shift and sign both copies. Medicines in the home stay under family control. Any decision about them belongs to the family, the prescriber, and the pharmacist. A caregiver who is not medical should not be asked to sort, return, or dispose of medicine.

Step 5: Settle the final invoice

When the final invoice arrives, compare it with the agreement, your notice, and your own record of the last shift. Question any charge dated after the last day of service. Do not pay a disputed line without a written explanation.

Step 6: Keep the records

Keep the agreement, the notice, the closing record, the final timesheet, and every invoice and payment receipt.¹ Store them in one folder and tell one family member where it is.

If the arrangement ends without notice

If the agency ends service suddenly or your household changes, follow the same steps in the same order as far as they apply. Write down what you did and when, while the details are fresh. For the reading order of this desk, see Start Here.

This desk is not affiliated with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs and does not give legal advice. Check the agreement itself and, where a question is legal, ask a qualified professional.

Sources

¹ VA.gov pages on Aid and Attendance and the evidence used in pension claims, listed on our Sources page.

Ending Home Care Start to Finish: Notice, Last Shift, House Keys, and Records