The free desk says it will file the claim, but the first physical step is not the claim. It is an appointment form. Until VA has a valid appointment on file, VA generally does not treat the representative as acting for Dad, and it may not release claim details to them.1 Treat the appointment as the start of the service, not paperwork you sign later.
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Confirm which form you are signing
A veterans service organization and its accredited representative use VA Form 21-22, Appointment of Veterans Service Organization as Claimant's Representative.1 An individual accredited attorney or agent uses a different form, VA Form 21-22a, which carries fee terms that a 21-22 does not.2 Read the title printed at the top of the page before you sign. If the person across the table is a volunteer from a service organization and the form says 21-22a, stop and ask why.
Check the accreditation before the signature
Ask for the representative's full name, the organization they work for, and their accreditation status. VA publishes an accreditation search on VA.gov that lists accredited representatives, attorneys, and agents.3 Compare the name on the search result to the name on the form and to the business card. A mismatch is a reason to pause, not a reason to sign and sort it out later. Keep a printed copy of the search result with the file.
Decide who signs for Dad
Dad signs as the veteran if he is able. If he is not able to sign, do not let anyone sign his name or sign as his stand-in until you have asked VA which document it requires and who may sign it. Whether a family member or other person has the authority to sign for Dad is a question for VA's instructions on the form or for a licensed attorney, not for the representative who wants the signature on the page. Write down the answer and the name of the person who gave it.
Submit it and confirm VA has it
Follow the submission method printed on the form, which is typically online through VA.gov or by mail to the address listed in the form instructions.1 Keep a complete copy of exactly what was sent, including every page. Then confirm receipt. Ask the representative in writing when they expect VA to show the appointment in its records, and check the claim status record yourself before you assume the representative has access. The copy you keep is your proof of the date you submitted it.
Know how to end it
The veteran may revoke an appointment in writing, and the revocation should be kept with the file just like the appointment itself.1 Ask the representative how they handle a revocation so that you are not learning the process during a dispute. Ending a representative relationship does not cancel a pending claim, so ask who will carry the file forward if you change representatives.
Check the fee line before you sign anything with money in it
A representative with a service organization does not charge a fee for this help. An attorney or agent may charge fees only as VA rules allow, and a fee agreement for an attorney or agent must be filed with VA.2 If any document you are asked to sign has a fee line, ask for the rule that permits it and look up that rule on VA.gov before you sign. Keep the signed fee agreement, the filing confirmation, and any receipt in the same folder as the appointment.
Before the first call, have these in hand
Have the correct form title, the representative's name and organization, the accreditation search result, the signer's identity and the authority question answered, the submission date and method, and the fee rule if one applies. If any of those is missing, the appointment is not finished. For free help in the St. Louis area, the local offices page lists who to call, and the sources page lists where each claim in this briefing comes from.
Sources: 1 VA Form 21-22, Appointment of Veterans Service Organization as Claimant's Representative, VA.gov forms library. 2 VA Form 21-22a, Appointment of Individual as Claimant's Representative, and the VA rules on attorney and agent fees, VA.gov. 3 VA Accreditation Search, VA.gov.